I wasn’t sure what to expect with this book, but picked it up on a whim after reading the first few pages at a bookstore.
First, if you’ve read any articles, blog posts, or books on success principles, there’s no new ground being broken here.
Instead, what Barker offers is a new narrative to deliver the information. Every chapter is loaded with stories, which makes the book a compelling enough read to get through. While the stories appear to be random, he ties them together in a way that fits his points.
At the end of every chapter are the key takeaways and call to action items. You could probably get all the information you need just from those summaries, but then you wouldn’t be quite as entertained.
My favourite section was Barker using Genghis Khan as a positive example of work-life balance and the section on relationships.
Some choice quotes:
“We always think we need more: more help, more motivation, more energy. But in our current world the answer is often the exact
opposite: we need less. Fewer distractions, fewer goals, fewer responsibilities. Is that so we can watch more TV? No. We need less of
those things so we can go all in on our priorities.”
You wouldn’t say “I got my dream job. Whew, now I can stop working,” but people frequently do something akin to this with relationships because “it was meant to be.”
If you’re a motivational junkie who wants another hit, or someone who is just never satisfied with their level of success, the book is worth the read.