The continued state of lockdown is certainly not an adventure I’d choose for this extended period of time, but it’s hit a point where I’ve been able to reframe it.

Sure, the house is never going to get clean (or stay clean if it gets close), we’re not able to see anyone or go anywhere and I’m certainly not winning any work-related awards for my performance this year.

However, every day has given me an opportunity to do the one thing every parent wished they could do more of: spend time with the kids.

Just playing with them.

Finding new and imaginative ways to have fun, getting them to come up with their own version of Calvinball and just being there as they grow up. We’re no longer running from one event to another, but lazily getting ourselves ready in the morning and sauntering on our walks/scooter rides outside.

Given the limited options in the house, it’s also forced us to be outside way more often and the fresh air, plus exercise, has been a healthy reprieve from the usual.

While there’s been plenty of quantity time this past year, it took some realization that all of it was quality time as well. Once that realization set in, it’s been a joy.

Don’t get me wrong, I am impatiently waiting for the moment we can see everyone again and will be sprinting to everyone the moment it’s possible. In the meantime, we have a house full of love.

And that’s something I will always enjoy.