Having a camera wherever we go has given us the opportunity to document our lives in picture and video.

The idea of having to remember to bring a camera, attempt to setup a good shot and hope the picture turns out well is gone. When something happens today, we can be sure there will be at least one good photo to verify (which might also explain the significant decrease in UFO sightings).

This is coming at a cost.

The documenting has now become more important than the event.

It’s not uncommon for people to spend more time taking pictures than actually enjoying what they are taking pictures of. At some point, we have to admit we’re doing nothing more than creating a simulacra of our own lives.

A simulation of an ideal life that tells a carefully crafted story.

The problem with those stories is they are surface level. Good for a quick glance, but lacking substance beyond the gallery.

Being present gives you the depth of experience and it’s not always perfect. The fact that it’s not gives you something to reflect upon and learn for next time around.

The story is then your story, not the story for others.

Yes, we want to be there, but we should also be present.