A life built on the expectations of others leads to feelings of emptiness. While we can be grateful for what others desire for us, especially when their intentions are good, they may not line up with who we’re meant to be.

Desires have a tendency to change over time, but the values behind them are rooted in something deep within our hearts. What seems good, as brought by others, may be nothing more than fleeting illusions we build for ourselves.

Even when we are lost and seek the counsel of those who we hope will guide our way, it’s not always clear. While we expect answers, the ones they provide are merely suggestions.

Ultimately, what we desire can only be answered by one person:

Ourselves.

And for that, we need to be truly honest with who we really are.