I’m always astounded by those who can read a book (or more) a day, study chess for three hours daily, write three thousand words (or more) each day for decades, run several thousand kilometers a year, or just about any task that seems staggering at first glance.

While we look to the practices of others as something to emulate, in whatever field or circumstance that might be, a broader inquiry into your own life needs to happen.

How will that practice, even if you work up to it, change your current state in life?

Does it come at the cost of ignoring your family? Giving up other goals you’re pursuing? Taking a toll on your health? Diminished relationships?

More importantly, can you sustain that practice for a long period of time?

If you’re willing to pay the price to make it happen, what will you do in your life to balance it out?

To expect no changes to be made while pursuing something to obsession is unrealistic and will fail, or will result in burnout.

All obsessions come with a reward and a price.

Before you pay it, ask if this is really the one you want to change your life.